Well, I don’t think it’s complex/difficult to decide who’s on the wrong side and who’s on the right. One’s the oppressor, others are the oppressed.
Nonetheless, I agree with you that we should be seeking a solution, instead of furthering the issue. As I mentioned in the article, the only feasible solution is: Two-State Solution. However, given the increase in Israeli atrocities, it has now been thrown out of the window. So, at the moment, we have nowhere to go unless Israel stops its oppression against innocent Palestinians and acknowledges/accepts Palestinians' right to their land.
As far as the religion-part is concerned, this issue can’t been understood and resolved without taking into account the religious as well as the geopolitical aspects of it.
Lastly, with all due respect, I respect your religion and everyone else’s as well. However, being a practicing Muslim, I believe in the righteousness and supremacy of Islam.